So ladies, he's caught your eye. He has your attention. You have his. Countless conversations have taken place. You smile when you think of him, hoping he's thinking of you also. Your heart skips a beat when you know you're going to see him. And you get butterflies when he touches you slightly or just simply whispers your name. I know, its wonderful and now you want to know "if he likes you". I'm happy for you.
But during this beautiful experience, have you stopped to talk to your father(Abba) about him. No. I mean really talk to God and listen to what he has to say. Not just the regular, "OK God, he's cute, dresses nice. He has a good job, a little baby momma drama, but its workable. He's nice to me, he goes to church and did I mention that he smells good!! Than you Jesus!" This is not what I mean. I'm referring to sitting in His presence and talking to him.
You want to know if he likes you. But how does God feel about him? What does God see when He looks at him? All of this is important. When you are dating ladies, you are dating with the intentions of it resulting in marriage.
So your first question should be: God, when you look at him, do you see your reflection in him? A man that simply goes to church will not carry Gods reflection. The man that God sees His reflection in, has a relationship with God. He's a worshiper. Doesn't mind shedding tears for God or letting Him see his softer side. He has a tender heart and loves God. He can be broken, chastised and corrected all so that Christ may get the glory out of his life. He spends time in the presence of God so that he knows God and knows His heart. This very reason is why he will be able to love, cherish and even die for you. Because he knows Gods heart. Ephesians 5:22-29
The man you want to like you should be able to do what was descibed in the scriptures above.
Your next question should be: (if God has seen His reflection in him) God, when you look at him, do you see me? Gen 1:27 2:18,21-24 Are you the one that was created with him from the very beginning? Are you the rib taken from his side? This is so very important. How much time, energy, heartache, disappointment and money (yes I did say money) has been wasted because you were not eve!! Why, why, why.?? Because we didn't take the time to ask. We wanted what" we" wanted!!
This time, even if you have been in it for a minute, take the time, stop, still yourself and talk to your father (Abba). He cares for you. You have purpose. You have destiny.You are His treasure and He wants you to be happy. Cast ALL your cares on him because He cares for you. In ALL your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path. You want His will for your life. How long have we gone on simply our will? So talk to him and listen for His answer. Remember, He will withhold no good thing from you.