Why does it seem that good guys are attracted to or seek women who humiliate, abuse and manipulate them, but resist or overlook women who encourage., respect, and build them up?
Men are very much visually stimulated by nature....however not all are controlled by this and not all allow that to be their decision making guide. But for those that do, what tends to happen is the first thing they see is a woman who is st...imulating them visually, and at first more than likely strokes their manly ego. On many occasion the "nice" woman, or encouraging woman is not willing (nor shoud she have to) to put the "goods" out in front for him, but want him to pursue them soley for something more than their looks (which he should). So many times you end up waiting until brother "nice" guy gets burned by all that glitter and shiny falshood.. Ultimately my advice is to always be a lady, and never take your beauty for granted...bad guys and nice guys like to look at, talk to, and pursure beauty, so let yours shine all the time! :-) Bless you.