The choices you're making now are impacting your relationships of tomorrow...

Choosing to wait or to go ahead and give yourself to someone that you are not in a covenant relationship with (married to) and sharing that most precious gift with them will impact the relationship you will have when you do get married. We share our souls and are bonded with every one that we give ourselves to sexually whether we believe it or not. The very act is a more than just a natural exercise in pleasure and physical release. It is a joining together of two souls and two spirits in oneness and just like melting a smores with marshmallow and chocolate between to graham crackers is unable to be separated, so is the ties between those who come together in intercourse. Just consider whether or not this is something you want to live with and carry into the rest of your life. It can and will impact your relationship of tomorrow...take a moment and make a choice to wait.

If a man is married and its not working out in no possible way and he is saying its over and hes tryna find a way to end it .......

Anonymous Question:
If a man is married and its not working out in no possible way and he is saying its over and hes tryna find a way to end it because the wife is crazy,
whats the best thing for a single woman to do, stay out of it until he ends it, or be done? He's pursuing the single woman. And wants to marry her. And this is a christian/ pastor

#Ways to Tell.... Answer:
His relationship with his wife is his business no matter what he tells you. He is simply trying to get the single woman to agree with him and to let her guard down feeling as if she is helping or rescuing him. Many things are happening in this situtation. A marrage is or will be ending soon, and has alredy more than likley been violated and the single woman will be a contributing factor to this, though she is beng made to feel as if she is helping a man out of an unfortunate situation. After all he says, he just wants to be happy, right? Men play many games with themselves and women when they are not ready to man up! A real man move would be for him to acknowledge the fact that he is not willing to stay in this relationship and has turned his affection elseward and wants out. He should be the one to cut off his communication with the single woman so as not to also violate her as a woman worthy of a commitment drama free. And take care of his current relationship business be that divorce or restoring his marrage through counseling and healing. Not until he is out of the relationship fully/legally should he even consider being with another woman.....Any single woman who thinks her life is gonna be better with a Married man who says his marriage is not working but will not divorce is decieveing herself leave him alone and wait until he mans up.