Anonymous Question: Are men seeking Christian women?

Anonymous Question: Are men seeking Christian women?

Answer:  Christian men should definitely be seeking christian women as it would be an obedient response to the Word of God on being equally yoked together....also, it is essential as a foundation to have the same beliefs and principles as it relates to religion and spirituality in your relationship. The problem sometimes comes when we group church going women with so called "Christian: women. All church goers are not followers of Christ and therefore do not manifest the fruits of a christian woman. Men desire women who do not threaten their manhood and are not street dwellers or live with unreal and unreasonable expectations of life and men which church dwellers often possess. Be modest, life righteously, and love God and yourself.

Q: I've known this guy going on 5 years...we dated here and there but he always seemed "emotionally unavailable" .......

 Anonymous Question.
Q: I've known this guy going on 5 years...we dated here and there but he always seemed "emotionally unavailable" so I would keep it moving. He continued to contact despite no answers and call backs. Now we are back on speaking terms and he wants to focus on frienship, no sex which is very good. However, he told me when I asked him about expectations that I can choose to date or not date other people. He calls everyday for brief conversations. I feel like this is very confusing and mixed messages. Am I on the right track with my thinking? Oh btw...invites me over very often (no sex or sexual moves or conversation about it). We cook and watch movies and its all good. But the date other people I want and we are just friends throws me off.

#WaysToTell.....A:
Sounds a bit weird for a straight up regular guy that is actually interested in you and desirous of a serious relationship with the potential for a future and marriage. Men who are ready don't play those types of games. Just because he has not said sex does not mean he is not thinking sex....we men have learned what it takes to keep you interested and what turns you off early.... If you are ready for a committed relationship, I would let this game player do another way and clearly communicate your intentions...or if you are interested in him you must Bluntly ask him if he wants to be married at some point, how soon, and such...

If you give him the chance to like "it" ...he may never put a ring on it.....#AllTheSingleLadies

If you give him the chance to like "it" ...he may never put a ring on it.....#AllTheSingleLadies

Many woman who have already given themselves to the one they hoped would be with them forever before entering into marriage will not get what they hoped for. You cannot teas a man into marrying you. Your games are countered by his games, and it's the one who give in first that loses out. Do not allow yourself to fall for the lie that he loves you so much and wants to be close to you and knows that you are the woman for him if he has not followed that up with a ring. Your emotional characteristics can many times be the very things that he can use to manipulate your body into doing what your mouth said you never would do. A man that wants to commit his life together with you knows that the joy and beauty will be the wonderful consummation of the two of you after you have vowed to be together forever. If you let him taste it, enjoy it, experience it, and encounter it, he may like it but so will you and he will know that you will give it without him ever putting a ring on your finger! Don't fall for it! #WomanUp

Q: Why don't SOME men (Not ALL), nowadays feel the need to "Pursue" (Not CHASE) a woman anymore??? What Stops the pursuit? - Part 1

Q: Why don't SOME men (Not ALL), nowadays feel the need to "Pursue" (Not CHASE) a woman anymore??? What Stops the pursuit?

A:

Women are unfortunately not willing to wait to be pursued in most cases (or shall I say many) and they seem to be running after men. Men realize this, and therefore what is the need for pursuance if she is the chaser.... Also, they are not being taught by any reliable, consistent, life exemplifying role models to do such... and therefore are taking their instructions from the girls that run up on them, drop it like its hot on screen and camera, sext them, flirt with them, fight over them and call them. The media has been the instructor for our men and their lesson is, play boys cause there is plenty to go around.... sad but true.

A woman who is modest, chaste, and conservative, without a nasty attitude, soft, aware of herself, and in love with living will have no problem attracting men who pursue....

 

MORE TO COME....

The choices you're making now are impacting your relationships of tomorrow...

Choosing to wait or to go ahead and give yourself to someone that you are not in a covenant relationship with (married to) and sharing that most precious gift with them will impact the relationship you will have when you do get married. We share our souls and are bonded with every one that we give ourselves to sexually whether we believe it or not. The very act is a more than just a natural exercise in pleasure and physical release. It is a joining together of two souls and two spirits in oneness and just like melting a smores with marshmallow and chocolate between to graham crackers is unable to be separated, so is the ties between those who come together in intercourse. Just consider whether or not this is something you want to live with and carry into the rest of your life. It can and will impact your relationship of tomorrow...take a moment and make a choice to wait.

If a man is married and its not working out in no possible way and he is saying its over and hes tryna find a way to end it .......

Anonymous Question:
If a man is married and its not working out in no possible way and he is saying its over and hes tryna find a way to end it because the wife is crazy,
whats the best thing for a single woman to do, stay out of it until he ends it, or be done? He's pursuing the single woman. And wants to marry her. And this is a christian/ pastor

#Ways to Tell.... Answer:
His relationship with his wife is his business no matter what he tells you. He is simply trying to get the single woman to agree with him and to let her guard down feeling as if she is helping or rescuing him. Many things are happening in this situtation. A marrage is or will be ending soon, and has alredy more than likley been violated and the single woman will be a contributing factor to this, though she is beng made to feel as if she is helping a man out of an unfortunate situation. After all he says, he just wants to be happy, right? Men play many games with themselves and women when they are not ready to man up! A real man move would be for him to acknowledge the fact that he is not willing to stay in this relationship and has turned his affection elseward and wants out. He should be the one to cut off his communication with the single woman so as not to also violate her as a woman worthy of a commitment drama free. And take care of his current relationship business be that divorce or restoring his marrage through counseling and healing. Not until he is out of the relationship fully/legally should he even consider being with another woman.....Any single woman who thinks her life is gonna be better with a Married man who says his marriage is not working but will not divorce is decieveing herself leave him alone and wait until he mans up.